{"id":1905,"date":"2023-12-16T07:02:07","date_gmt":"2023-12-16T06:02:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/petrakubaskova.cz\/?p=1905"},"modified":"2023-12-16T07:02:07","modified_gmt":"2023-12-16T06:02:07","slug":"dejte-si-darek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/petrakubaskova.cz\/?p=1905","title":{"rendered":"Dejte si d\u00e1rek"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nebojte se, nechci v\u00e1m te\u010f vnutit \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd produkt v\u010detn\u011b pocitu, \u017ee ho nevyhnuteln\u011b pot\u0159ebujete m\u00edt. Toti\u017e to, co  doopravdy pot\u0159ebujeme, by\u0165 by to byla \u00fapln\u00e1 mali\u010dkost, si hodn\u011b \u010dasto ani  nedop\u0159ejeme. Mo\u017en\u00e1 to \u010dek\u00e1 zapomenut\u00e9 n\u011bkde v koutku, zavaleno a p\u0159ehlu\u0161eno rykem ka\u017edodenn\u00edch povinnost\u00ed a v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 \u00fadajn\u011b, podle n\u00e1zoru n\u011bkoho, kdo n\u00e1s pram\u00e1lo zn\u00e1, pot\u0159ebovat a d\u011blat m\u00e1me&#8230; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/petrakubaskova.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/santa-claus-1819933_1280-700x463.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1906\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V t\u011bchto hektick\u00fdch p\u0159edv\u00e1no\u010dn\u00edch dnech, kdy se spousta starost\u00ed to\u010d\u00ed kolem toho, zda se to &#8222;stihne&#8220; (doru\u010dit, uklidit, nap\u00e9ct, zabalit, nazdobit) &#8222;do V\u00e1noc&#8220;, m\u00e1me my, St\u0159elci, narozeniny. Dva dny p\u0159ed Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161kem je dokonce st\u00edhaj\u00ed m\u00edt i Kozorozi. St\u0159elci r\u00e1di m\u00ed\u0159\u00ed na c\u00edl a jsou r\u00e1di, kdy\u017e se tref\u00ed. Tak j\u00e1 jsem si dnes za c\u00edl vybrala v\u00e1s, kdo tohle \u010dtete, a je jedno, kdy se k tomu \u010dten\u00ed dost\u00e1v\u00e1te. D\u00e1te si &#8211; a pota\u017emo mn\u011b k narozenin\u00e1m, klidn\u011b i opo\u017ed\u011bn\u011b &#8211; d\u00e1rek? Spl\u0148te sami sob\u011b n\u011bco, co dlouho odkl\u00e1d\u00e1te&#8230;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cht\u011bli jste zkouknout n\u011bjak\u00fd film, seri\u00e1l? A co ta kn\u00ed\u017eka, co \u010dek\u00e1 na poli\u010dce, v\u00edte, takov\u00e1 ta, kterou jste si cht\u011bli p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst v kl\u00eddku&#8230; Nebo jste tak dlouho p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161leli, jestli si n\u011bco koup\u00edte, a\u017e jste si nakonec \u0159ekli, \u017ee se bez toho obejdete, p\u0159esto v\u0161ak ne a ne tu v\u011bc pustit z hlavy&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nebo jste cht\u011bli vz\u00edt nordic hole a d\u00e1t si s nimi sportovn\u00ed proch\u00e1zku, ale n\u011bjak to nevy\u0161lo? Nebo jste jako j\u00e1 a t\u00fdden p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edte, jestli si koupit v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed svetr, i kdy\u017e je to v\u011bc, kterou vyt\u00e1hnete jednou do roka? Pr\u00e1sknu na sebe, \u017ee jsem si takov\u00fd v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed svetr ned\u00e1vno koupila, i kdy\u017e u\u017e jeden, trochu sepran\u00fd, m\u00e1m, a dal\u0161\u00ed si pletu. Anebo si t\u0159eba kone\u010dn\u011b napust\u00edte tu vanu, k tomu si zap\u00e1l\u00edte aromalampu a sv\u00ed\u010dku. A p\u0159id\u00e1te misku s n\u011b\u010d\u00edm dobr\u00fdm na zub. Nebo si koup\u00edte audioknihu, proto\u017ee se v\u00e1m nechce \u010d\u00edst o\u010dima. D\u00e1rek, kter\u00fd d\u00e1me sami sob\u011b, m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt mnoho podob. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/petrakubaskova.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/gift-4669449_1280-700x466.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1907\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010cas od \u010dasu m\u00e1m v noci dost divn\u00fd a trochu d\u011bsiv\u00fd sen. Pobavila jsem se o n\u011bm onehd\u00e1 s jednou pan\u00ed, kter\u00e1 tomu rozum\u00ed, a shodly jsme se, \u017ee asi v\u00edme, pro\u010d se mi ob\u010das zd\u00e1 o koni, kter\u00e9ho zni\u010dehonic najdu u sebe doma, \u00fapln\u011b vyhladov\u011bl\u00e9ho, vyz\u00e1bl\u00e9ho, zanedban\u00e9ho a o\u010dividn\u011b zapomenut\u00e9ho. V\u011bt\u0161inou se v  tom snu div\u00edm, \u017ee v\u016fbec n\u011bjak\u00e9ho kon\u011b m\u00e1m. Jen prozrad\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00edt sv\u00e9ho vlastn\u00edho kon\u011b byl kdysi v d\u011btstv\u00ed a pubert\u011b m\u016fj tajn\u00fd sen \u010d\u00edslo jedna. Zn\u00ed to zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u011b, ale na\u0161e podv\u011bdom\u00ed pracuje na principech, kter\u00e9 na\u0161e bd\u011bl\u00e9 v\u011bdom\u00ed tak \u00fapln\u011b nech\u00e1pe. Mus\u00ed se mu to p\u011bkn\u011b po lopat\u011b vysv\u011btlit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jak u\u017e jsem napsala, v t\u011bchto hektick\u00fdch p\u0159edv\u00e1no\u010dn\u00edch dnech \u010dasto zapom\u00edn\u00e1me sami na sebe. Na p\u00e9\u010di o sebe sama, sv\u00e9 sny, tajn\u00e1 i ne tak \u00fapln\u011b tajn\u00e1 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed. A z na\u0161ich vlastn\u00edch re\u00e1ln\u00fdch pot\u0159eb a tu\u017eeb zbyde vyz\u00e1bl\u00e1, podvy\u017eiven\u00e1 kost\u0159i\u010dka na pokraji sil. Dovol\u00edm si te\u010f jednu metaforu: b\u011b\u017ete a nakrmte sv\u00e9ho kon\u00edka, a\u0165 nestr\u00e1d\u00e1. Ud\u011bl\u00e1te to? Potom, i kdy\u017e se to j\u00e1 mo\u017en\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edmo nedozv\u00edm, mi spln\u00edte narozeninov\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed. Budete o tom ale v\u011bd\u011bt vy, a sv\u011bt bude pak zase o trochu hez\u010d\u00ed a m\u00e9n\u011b zb\u011bsil\u00fd. Nebojte se d\u00e1t sami sebe na chv\u00edli na prvn\u00ed m\u00edsto. V\u0161ak j\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161inou \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, \u017ee vlastn\u00ed narozky ne\u0159e\u0161\u00edm, proto\u017ee na n\u011b p\u0159ed V\u00e1nocemi stejn\u011b zapom\u00edn\u00e1m&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/petrakubaskova.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/gift-1420830_1280-700x389.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1908\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jedna hol\u010di\u010dka mi tam, kde moment\u00e1ln\u011b pracuji, \u0159ekla: &#8222;J\u00e1 m\u00e1m za t\u0159i dny narozeniny! A pan\u00ed u\u010ditelka je m\u00e1 taky!&#8220; Teprve kdy\u017e jsem hol\u010di\u010dce pop\u0159\u00e1la a \u0159ekla j\u00ed, \u017ee tedy p\u016fjdu pop\u0159\u00e1t i jej\u00ed pan\u00ed u\u010ditelce t\u0159\u00eddn\u00ed, dodala hol\u010di\u010dka je\u0161t\u011b i datum. V t\u00e9 chv\u00edli mi do\u0161lo, \u017ee v ten den jsou i moje narozeniny&#8230; Jen jsem na to prost\u011b zase zapomn\u011bla, ostatn\u011b jako v\u017edy. P\u0159ipomenou mi a\u017e gratulanti. Kter\u00fdm d\u011bkuji, \u017ee si na m\u011b v tom p\u0159edv\u00e1no\u010dn\u00edm bl\u00e1zinci vzpomenou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nach\u00e1z\u00edte se v tom taky? \u010cekaj\u00ed va\u0161e vlastn\u00ed pot\u0159eby, a\u017e na n\u011b p\u0159ijde \u0159ada, ale jsou a\u017e na konci fronty a den m\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 m\u00e1lo hodin, ne\u017e aby se na n\u011b v\u016fbec dostalo? Tak \u0161up, b\u011b\u017ete jim ud\u011blat radost a prom\u011b\u0148te je &#8211; aspo\u0148 na chv\u00edli &#8211; z otlouk\u00e1nka ve VIP osobu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159eji v\u00e1m kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 nejen p\u0159edv\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed dny. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nebojte se, nechci v\u00e1m te\u010f vnutit \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd produkt v\u010detn\u011b pocitu, \u017ee ho nevyhnuteln\u011b pot\u0159ebujete m\u00edt. Toti\u017e to, co doopravdy pot\u0159ebujeme, by\u0165 by to byla \u00fapln\u00e1 mali\u010dkost, si hodn\u011b \u010dasto ani nedop\u0159ejeme. Mo\u017en\u00e1 to \u010dek\u00e1 zapomenut\u00e9 n\u011bkde v koutku, zavaleno a p\u0159ehlu\u0161eno rykem ka\u017edodenn\u00edch povinnost\u00ed a v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 \u00fadajn\u011b, podle n\u00e1zoru n\u011bkoho, kdo n\u00e1s pram\u00e1lo zn\u00e1, pot\u0159ebovat a d\u011blat m\u00e1me&#8230; V t\u011bchto hektick\u00fdch p\u0159edv\u00e1no\u010dn\u00edch dnech, kdy se spousta starost\u00ed to\u010d\u00ed kolem toho, zda se to &#8222;stihne&#8220; (doru\u010dit, uklidit, nap\u00e9ct, zabalit, nazdobit) &#8222;do V\u00e1noc&#8220;, m\u00e1me my, St\u0159elci, narozeniny. Dva dny p\u0159ed Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161kem je dokonce st\u00edhaj\u00ed m\u00edt i Kozorozi. St\u0159elci r\u00e1di m\u00ed\u0159\u00ed na c\u00edl a jsou r\u00e1di, kdy\u017e se tref\u00ed. Tak j\u00e1 jsem si dnes za c\u00edl vybrala v\u00e1s, kdo tohle \u010dtete, a je jedno, kdy se k tomu \u010dten\u00ed dost\u00e1v\u00e1te. D\u00e1te si &#8211; a pota\u017emo mn\u011b k narozenin\u00e1m, klidn\u011b i opo\u017ed\u011bn\u011b &#8211; d\u00e1rek? Spl\u0148te sami sob\u011b n\u011bco, co dlouho odkl\u00e1d\u00e1te&#8230;. Cht\u011bli jste zkouknout n\u011bjak\u00fd film, seri\u00e1l? A co ta kn\u00ed\u017eka, co \u010dek\u00e1 na poli\u010dce, v\u00edte, takov\u00e1 ta, kterou jste si cht\u011bli p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst v kl\u00eddku&#8230; Nebo jste tak dlouho p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161leli, jestli si n\u011bco koup\u00edte, a\u017e jste si nakonec \u0159ekli, \u017ee se bez toho obejdete, p\u0159esto v\u0161ak ne a ne tu v\u011bc pustit z hlavy&#8230; Nebo jste cht\u011bli vz\u00edt nordic hole a d\u00e1t si s nimi sportovn\u00ed proch\u00e1zku, ale n\u011bjak to nevy\u0161lo? Nebo jste jako j\u00e1 a t\u00fdden p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edte, jestli si koupit v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed svetr, i kdy\u017e je to v\u011bc, kterou vyt\u00e1hnete jednou do roka? Pr\u00e1sknu na sebe, \u017ee jsem si takov\u00fd v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed svetr ned\u00e1vno koupila, i kdy\u017e u\u017e jeden, trochu sepran\u00fd, m\u00e1m, a dal\u0161\u00ed si pletu. Anebo si t\u0159eba kone\u010dn\u011b napust\u00edte tu vanu, k tomu si zap\u00e1l\u00edte aromalampu a sv\u00ed\u010dku. A p\u0159id\u00e1te misku s n\u011b\u010d\u00edm dobr\u00fdm na zub. Nebo si koup\u00edte audioknihu, proto\u017ee se v\u00e1m nechce \u010d\u00edst o\u010dima. D\u00e1rek, kter\u00fd d\u00e1me sami sob\u011b, m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt mnoho podob. \u010cas od \u010dasu m\u00e1m v noci dost divn\u00fd a trochu d\u011bsiv\u00fd sen. Pobavila jsem se o n\u011bm onehd\u00e1 s jednou pan\u00ed, kter\u00e1 tomu rozum\u00ed, a shodly jsme se, \u017ee asi v\u00edme, pro\u010d se mi ob\u010das zd\u00e1 o koni, kter\u00e9ho zni\u010dehonic najdu u sebe doma, \u00fapln\u011b vyhladov\u011bl\u00e9ho, vyz\u00e1bl\u00e9ho, zanedban\u00e9ho a o\u010dividn\u011b zapomenut\u00e9ho. V\u011bt\u0161inou se v tom snu div\u00edm, \u017ee v\u016fbec n\u011bjak\u00e9ho kon\u011b m\u00e1m. Jen prozrad\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00edt sv\u00e9ho vlastn\u00edho kon\u011b byl kdysi v d\u011btstv\u00ed a pubert\u011b m\u016fj tajn\u00fd sen \u010d\u00edslo jedna. Zn\u00ed to zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u011b, ale na\u0161e podv\u011bdom\u00ed pracuje na principech, kter\u00e9 na\u0161e bd\u011bl\u00e9 v\u011bdom\u00ed tak \u00fapln\u011b nech\u00e1pe. Mus\u00ed se mu to p\u011bkn\u011b po lopat\u011b vysv\u011btlit. Jak u\u017e jsem napsala, v t\u011bchto hektick\u00fdch p\u0159edv\u00e1no\u010dn\u00edch dnech \u010dasto zapom\u00edn\u00e1me sami na sebe. Na p\u00e9\u010di o sebe sama, sv\u00e9 sny, tajn\u00e1 i ne tak \u00fapln\u011b tajn\u00e1 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed. A z na\u0161ich vlastn\u00edch re\u00e1ln\u00fdch pot\u0159eb a tu\u017eeb zbyde vyz\u00e1bl\u00e1, podvy\u017eiven\u00e1 kost\u0159i\u010dka na pokraji sil. Dovol\u00edm si te\u010f jednu metaforu: b\u011b\u017ete a nakrmte sv\u00e9ho kon\u00edka, a\u0165 nestr\u00e1d\u00e1. Ud\u011bl\u00e1te to? Potom, i kdy\u017e se to j\u00e1 mo\u017en\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edmo nedozv\u00edm, mi spln\u00edte narozeninov\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed. Budete o tom ale v\u011bd\u011bt vy, a sv\u011bt bude pak zase o trochu hez\u010d\u00ed a m\u00e9n\u011b zb\u011bsil\u00fd. Nebojte se d\u00e1t sami sebe na chv\u00edli na prvn\u00ed m\u00edsto. V\u0161ak j\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161inou \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, \u017ee vlastn\u00ed narozky ne\u0159e\u0161\u00edm, proto\u017ee na n\u011b p\u0159ed V\u00e1nocemi stejn\u011b zapom\u00edn\u00e1m&#8230; Jedna hol\u010di\u010dka mi tam, kde moment\u00e1ln\u011b pracuji, \u0159ekla: &#8222;J\u00e1 m\u00e1m za t\u0159i dny narozeniny! A pan\u00ed u\u010ditelka je m\u00e1 taky!&#8220; Teprve kdy\u017e jsem hol\u010di\u010dce pop\u0159\u00e1la a \u0159ekla j\u00ed, \u017ee tedy p\u016fjdu pop\u0159\u00e1t i jej\u00ed pan\u00ed u\u010ditelce t\u0159\u00eddn\u00ed, dodala hol\u010di\u010dka je\u0161t\u011b i datum. V t\u00e9 chv\u00edli mi do\u0161lo, \u017ee v ten den jsou i moje narozeniny&#8230; Jen jsem na to prost\u011b zase zapomn\u011bla, ostatn\u011b jako v\u017edy. P\u0159ipomenou mi a\u017e gratulanti. Kter\u00fdm d\u011bkuji, \u017ee si na m\u011b v tom p\u0159edv\u00e1no\u010dn\u00edm bl\u00e1zinci vzpomenou. Nach\u00e1z\u00edte se v tom taky? \u010cekaj\u00ed va\u0161e vlastn\u00ed pot\u0159eby, a\u017e na n\u011b p\u0159ijde \u0159ada, ale jsou a\u017e na konci fronty a den m\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 m\u00e1lo hodin, ne\u017e aby se na n\u011b v\u016fbec dostalo? Tak \u0161up, b\u011b\u017ete jim ud\u011blat radost a prom\u011b\u0148te je &#8211; aspo\u0148 na chv\u00edli &#8211; z otlouk\u00e1nka ve VIP osobu. 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